家庭教育:一个并不轻松的话题

发布时间：2018-03-07 04:35

本文选题：家庭教育　切入点：父母　出处：《南方论刊》1997年01期 　论文类型：期刊论文

【摘要】：正家庭教育是青少年教育的重要组成部分。但目前不少的家庭教育存在着明显的误区,可以说,这是一个并不轻松的话题。问题:难以回避的现实家庭教育存在的问题主要有:一、严厉有余而沟通不足。唐某15岁,出生在农家,但其父常年在外经商,收入颇丰,经济条件较好,唐父的家教也甚严。父母为使儿子"成材",订下一系列严厉的"家规":放学回家,不准贪玩,不准乱跑,不准看电视,不准串门,不准一人外出……"规矩"是应有尽有。只要唐父做生意一回来,便将儿子赶进他的小天地,反锁房门,由他做作业。儿子有时借故问作业上的"问题",想和父母聊上几句解解闷,却总被父母以"这些作业我们不懂,你自己慢慢学"而给打发了。如此日复一日,儿子自叹"我比坐牢还难过,连个说话的人都没有。"由于父母与唐某长时间在感情上没有沟通,没有交流,使唐某暗中认为"我不是他们亲生的,不然何以对我如此冷
[Abstract]:Positive family education is an important part of juvenile education. However, at present, many family education has obvious misunderstandings, it can be said, This is not an easy topic. Problem: the unavoidable problems of family education are as follows: first, severe but not enough communication. Tang Mou, 15 years old, was born in a peasant family, but his father was in business all year round, and his income was quite high. The financial conditions were better, and Tang's father's tutor was very strict. In order to make his son "become a talent," parents laid down a series of strict "family rules": go home from school, not to play, not to run around, not to watch TV, and not to stop visiting. No one is allowed to go out. The "rules" are everything. As soon as Tang Father comes back from business, he will drive his son into his small world, lock the door behind his door, and do his homework. The son sometimes asks the homework "questions" under the pretext of an excuse, and wants to talk to his parents for a few words of relief. But my parents always sent them away by saying, "We don't understand the homework, you learn it yourself." so day after day, the son said to himself, "I feel worse than going to jail." Even the person who spoke did not have. "because parents and Tang Mou did not communicate emotionally for a long time, did not communicate, make Tang Mou secretly think" I am not their biological, otherwise why is so cold to me
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