对“一夜情”行为的伦理思考

发布时间：2018-05-21 12:56

本文选题：一夜情 + 伦理争议　；参考：《昆明理工大学》2016年硕士论文

【摘要】：近年来,一夜情行为成为引人注目的现象,是因为它的性质是基于“性的纯粹化”的一种快乐主义,而这种快乐主义挑战了我国以爱情为衡量标准的性的道德判断准则。一夜情行为所蕴含的“非爱情化”的价值倾向,颠覆了中国传统的性道德观,即便如是,那么纯粹的追求快乐,不寻求爱情的性行为是否就是万恶并且不可取；基于平等、自愿、无伤的原则下实现的一夜情是否在法律的管辖范围内,又如何合理地用法律或道德的手段对之进行调控；西方人坚持的性自由与性权利是性放纵的托词,还是一夜情滋生的依据；而我国传统的性道德观又是否适应现在中国社会的发展,让我们在选择对传统性道德的坚守或摒弃不置可否。这一系列的问题与矛盾,让我们对一夜情行为的道德性判断失去支撑,也让研究一夜情行为变得困难重重。本文试图通过梳理清楚性权利争议,性自由的争议,解决性调控中道德调控与法律调控的种种矛盾,归纳出一夜情行为产生的真正原因,首当其冲的是受到西方性道德文化的冲击,和我国性道德教育的缺失,加上现代科技的发展给一夜情行为提供了便利。另外,不同人坚守着不同的伦理准则,性道德教育的缺失又让人们对自己坚守的伦理准则的科学性不置可否。即便支持“一夜情”行为的学者强调一夜情行为的合法性,是性的基本权利,是性自由的表现,但是他们还是在根本上回避了“一夜情”行为的非道德性,笔者通过不断地访谈目标人群以及查阅一手调查资料,了解到“一夜情”行为可能存在的危害,并总结出“一夜情”行为的非道德性。既带来性病艾滋病的传播与蔓延；破坏婚姻家庭幸福进而导致社会的不安定；并且违反了性道德伦理原则。鉴于“一夜情”行为带来的如此多负面影响,我们也不该再对这样的行为避而不谈,那样反而助长“一夜情”行为肆无忌惮的扩散。本文试图通过提出相应的对策来杜绝一夜情行为的发生。首先,婚姻家庭中,要通过各种手段增进夫妻间的感情,减少婚内出轨的可能性；其次,无论是否结婚,都得普及家庭、学校以及社会对性的教育,让人们首先在意识层面认识到“一夜情”行为的非道德性；通过树立人们健康科学的性行为观念,提高人们性意识和性行为的控制能力,让人们即使在欲望的诱惑面前,也能够通过自我的控制,拒绝“一夜情”行为的发生。
[Abstract]:In recent years, the behavior of one-night stands has become a remarkable phenomenon because its nature is a kind of happiness based on "purificationism of sex", which challenges the moral criterion of sex based on love in our country. The "non-romantic" value tendency of one-night stands upsets the traditional Chinese sexual morality, even if it is pure pursuit of happiness, whether sexual behavior that does not seek love is all evil and undesirable; based on equality, Whether the one-night stand realized under the principle of free will and injury is within the jurisdiction of the law, and how to regulate it reasonably by legal or moral means; the sexual freedom and right insisted by the Westerners are the excuses for sexual indulgence. It is also the basis of the breeding of one-night stand, and whether the traditional sexual morality of our country adapts to the development of Chinese society, let us choose to stick to the traditional morality or abandon whether or not. This series of problems and contradictions make us lose support for moral judgment of one-night stand behavior and make it difficult to study one-night stand behavior. This paper tries to sort out the disputes of sexual rights and freedom, resolve the conflicts between moral regulation and legal regulation, and sum up the real causes of the one-night stand behavior. The first thing to bear the brunt is the impact of the Western sexual moral culture and the lack of sexual moral education in China, coupled with the development of modern science and technology to facilitate the one-night stand behavior. In addition, different people adhere to different ethical norms, and the lack of sexual education makes people unsure of the scientific nature of the ethical norms they adhere to. Even though scholars who support "one-night stand" behavior emphasize that the legality of one-night stand behavior is the basic right of sex and the expression of sexual freedom, they still fundamentally avoid the unethical nature of "one-night stand" behavior. By interviewing the target crowd and consulting the primary investigation data, the author finds out the possible harm of "one-night stand" behavior, and sums up the unethical nature of "one-night stand" behavior. It not only leads to the spread and spread of STD / AIDS, destroys the happiness of marriage and family and leads to social instability, but also violates the principles of sexual ethics. In view of the negative effects of one-night stands, we should no longer avoid talking about them, and that would encourage the unbridled spread of one-night stands. This paper attempts to put forward the corresponding countermeasures to prevent the occurrence of one-night stand behavior. First of all, in marriage and family, we need to promote the relationship between husband and wife through various means to reduce the possibility of cheating in marriage; secondly, whether we are married or not, we must popularize the education of the family, school and society about sex. Let people realize the unethical nature of "one-night stand" behavior at the level of consciousness first, and improve people's sexual consciousness and sexual behavior control ability by establishing people's healthy and scientific concept of sexual behavior, so that people can even face the temptation of desire. Can also through self-control, reject the occurrence of "one-night stand" behavior.
【学位授予单位】：昆明理工大学
【学位级别】：硕士
【学位授予年份】：2016
【分类号】：B823.4

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